Life After Death through Social Media

Yes, Virginia, there is social media after death.  Almost anything lingers forever in cyberspace, long after you’ve left this earthly plane.  Just check the online “wayback” machines for proof of this.  Yet, many of us don’t think about what happens to our social media connections when setting forth an estate plan but digital asset management is essential.

As we’ve discussed, you cannot leave your digital libraries to anyone per the terms of most online retailers.  So, what happens to your Facebook, MySpace, LinkedIn and assorted other social media accounts?  The short answer is they linger…forever…sort of like a cyber eternal flame of stupidity.

Image courtesy: Kromkrathog/

Image courtesy: Kromkrathog/

Everyone needs an estate plan and everyone needs to share our top-secret passwords with someone, preferably our executor, before we go.  It sounds easy but during these days of heightened paranoia, with many of us ultra-vigilant about cyber-security (at least, I hope so), we change passwords frequently.  So, what’s a social butterfly to do?  Leave a “Letter of Instruction” with your attorney and/or executor, or place the letter in a safe place and TELL your executor where to locate it.  Let’s face it, we all should trust at least one other person, right?

More than a dozen states have already implemented digital estate management laws in varying degrees, allowing executors to access online accounts. Yahoo and Google have recently implemented an “after death” policy whereby an authorized party can provide a copy of your death certificate and Google will close your account and delete your Flickr photos.  They even added an “inactive account manager” to their sites so you can determine now, while you’re still breathing, what happens to your “cyber stuff” if there’s been no account activity for a pre-set period of time.  I think that’s the way to go.  Even if you’re still breathing, if there’s been no activity in your account for at least a year, I think the social media sites should delete you anyway.  Can you imagine the costs of server maintenance for all of these “dead accounts,” pun intended.  I expect many other social sites will start to think about the departed, or nearly departed, very soon.

Digital Estate Planning

In death you can only leave so much of what you owned during life.  Basically, if you don’t own it at death then you can’t pass it along to your grateful heirs.  I didn’t really think much about it until today when the lovely Lynda Baquero from News 4NY dropped by to chat about it. (look for the interview on News 4 NY in a few weeks)

So much of our lives are lived online yet rarely do we think about what will happen to our cyber lives once we go to the great social network in the sky.  Do you really own all that you seem to buy?  Not quite.

Illustration courtesy:  Stuart Miles/

Illustration courtesy: Stuart Miles/

When you purchase and eBook, song or movie from an online provider as a digital download, you DO NOT OWN the book, tune or flick.  You merely pay for a license to use it during your life and are not bestowed with the right to assign/give it to anyone else.  Surprise!  Bet many of you didn’t know that.  It’s not the same as back in the days of the Frick Collection or Rockefeller Library when big collections meant something and were valuable.

The files you download to your device will generally remain with your device, some as long as the account remains viable and others remain on the device indefinitely.  Yet, read the fine print, the terms and conditions of purchase.  You can’t pass that content to anyone else so if you give a fully loaded old Kindle to your niece or friend, it’s questionable whether you have the right to do so.  Sure, you can give them the physical object of the device itself but you probably don’t have the right to pass its contents to anyone else.

Therefore, the short answer is that when you die, so does your right to any of these digital files, meaning you cannot pass them along in your will.  On the other hand, if you owned actual books and discs at your death, you could bequeath those by the truckload.

We live in an electronic age when the only thing that has changed is how we share information.  The actual task of estate planning is still the same and as painful for most people who shudder at facing their own mortality.

So, what do you do with your cyberlife, social connections, photos and more?  We’ll tackle that next week.

Digital Fingerprints on Your Copyright

I haven’t written here in awhile because as some may know, I am busy selling my first book, “Amalfi Blue, lost & found in the south of Italy,” Over on Kickstarter. (Just 4 days left over there so run now).  Also, with so many irons in the writing well, to cross-pollinate puns, the lines often blur between ex-rock journalist, network reporter, travel concierge, author and entertainment attorney, whew!  How do I sleep?

Anyway, while thinking about the book while driving this AM (there is no law against thinking while driving yet!), it dawned on me that the old school method of “poor man’s copyright” for a creative work may actually be obsolete when it comes to protecting intellectual property.

Back in the day, my musician and writer friends would send a tape/disc or printout of their creation to themselves by registered mail, return receipt.  All of the post clerks knew what to do.  They would even direct the novice artists who used the wrong envelopes, etc.

Well, when I went to mail a copy of “Amalfi Blue” to myself last week, the postal clerk didn’t know what to do and I had to instruct her.  Then it dawned on me that every thing we do on our computers, EVERYTHING, has a digital fingerprint, so is the “poor man’s copyright” necessary any longer?

It was called such because it was a way to “prove” you created something at some point in time without actually registering it at the U.S. copyright office, thereby saving the fees for the “poor man.”  In actuality, even registering something at the Copyright Office doesn’t prove date of creation in a court of law.  It only proves who was smart enough to document it first.

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Therefore, if every digital file is date-stamped by your computer and every transaction can be digitally traced across the ethers, perhaps the new “poor man” copyright is even more economical.  Maybe it’s as easy, and as free, as simply emailing your creative file to yourself and saving a copy of the email.  True, there is no date stamp from a governmental agency but when the governmental workers no longer recognize the process once used to protect artistic works.  Maybe it’s time for poor artists to rest their faith in the ethers.

I haven’t researched case law on this issue but it would be interesting to see if this has been used in a copyright challenge in court?  Anyone know?

NOTE:  Writer here would truly appreciate any comments here from digital forensic experts.